Sunday, November 15, 2009

trust

why is trust that important in someone's life? my answer will be the world could revolves smoothly. trust is like the lubricating oil for rusty machine. trust is something that you cannot use money to buy. just like anything else, you too have to earn people's trust.the problem is the world has lost this trust. everyone is misleading each other to reach to their goals in life. even life have a way to go but people tends to misuse everything that is given.

the first step of trust is earning your own trust. in other meaning, we have to have faith in ourselves. who is better to support us than ourselves, right ? i know sometimes you fail badly that the next day you do not want to live. this feeling is like hanging in mid air. just dropping and apparently very quickly. you have to tell yourself that you are worthy human being but not insignificant. notify yourself that you are bring to this world for some reasons. things happens for some reasons and sometimes it is meant to be a beautiful accident. you don't even have the courage to deny it. whatever happens, just hang on and do not commit suicide. the dumbest thing to do is suicide but not living on with your life.

gonnarain [800x600]

if you think you can pass yourself, then you are ready for the next step which between family and friends. earning trust from your family and friends is not easy. the starting is easy as you start from a clean record. as you go further, the journey will not be a walk in the park. there is all the ups and downs going on which means there is a posibillity of ruin record. 'fraid not just like a piece paper, you can simply erase all the marks. you should know that it is daunting and it will never be the same. you must forgive yourself in order for others to forgive you. there is no meaning if you are not to forgive yourself. having a family's and friend's trust is truly wonderful. why? they are like your personal cheerleaders who will keep on cheering and supporting you. they will help you in your difficult moments.

if you think you are ready to go in the society, the world, go ahead. this step is obviously harder compared to the previous steps. the range of people has also increase, which means more people. in simple words, you need more effort to sucess this step. bigger world, bigger challenges is best to describe this situation. even so, this is not the doomsday. if you can conqure this step, i am proud to say congratulation an well done. you know what? it means that you have sucessfully make yourself a person to believe in. though you are not call as god, you managed to make everyone to have faith in you.

tomatopotato [800x600]
so colourful, ;}

trust cannot stand by itself and obviously like people, trust needs something to support. the support is called responsibility. how should i put this? this is a simple theory. if you are not responsibility, people might want to rethink on trusting you. when this two words merge as one, it is call reliable. another theory, people will rely on you if they trust you.

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this is something that i wrote ages ago and i just found it in my document
so i think why not post it in my blog, feel like it is a bunch of crap
don't think it gives any meaning at all
it is too much words ??



Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while first. Ask questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart


the next question to me, is what to blog for tomorrow
LE Sighs